A TALE OF TWO CULTURES: LOGIE COUNTRY HOUSE WEDDING
FEATURING
Ayoola and Matthew put the perfect team of suppliers together to create a Logie Country House wedding that reflected both their cultures and personalities.
“If I could share one piece of advice, it would be to stick to your guns. Do what you want and plan the wedding that feels right for you.”
~ Ayoola + Matthew
We Fell In Love With…
The little details, the autumnal hues, elegant vibes and two amazing wedding cakes!
“Every detail felt like a reflection of us, and seeing it all come together on the day made it so special.” Ayoola and Matthew’s beautiful Logie Country House wedding was a multicultural match made it heaven.
Read on to find out all about it and stay tuned to the end to hear their fabulous advice for those currently planning a wedding!
TELL US ABOUT YOU TWO + YOUR WEDDING JOURNEY
We met during Covid on Bumble, and our first date was actually at Ayoola’s flat – technically breaking lockdown rules! But as they say, the rest is history.
When it came to choosing our wedding location, we picked Aberdeenshire because it felt central for our guests traveling from the north and south, and it’s where we live. Logie Country House was the perfect venue for us. Not only is it stunning, but it also sleeps up to 50 people, which meant we could have as many of our loved ones stay with us as possible.
Ayoola loves autumn, the colours, the cozy atmosphere, so it was an easy choice for the season. September felt right, especially as it’s her birthday month, making it even more special. Most of the planning was done by the two of us, with the help of an amazing team we hired. The staff at Logie Country House were incredible on the day and made sure everything ran smoothly. They were especially accommodating with our traditional Nigerian wedding, which we decided to hold the day before the main event. This wasn’t something we’d initially planned, but it worked out beautifully and gave us the chance to share our culture with our family and friends.
TELL US ABOUT YOUR OUTFITS
Our wedding outfits were probably one of the easiest parts to figure out. Matthew is Scottish, so he already had a kilt, which made things simple for him. As for me, I found my dress at the very first shop I went to. It was the fourth dress I tried on, and I immediately fell in love with it. It was simple, which was exactly what I wanted—I didn’t need anything too over-the-top. Even now, I still love it so much.
For Matthew’s groomsmen, there was a mix of Scottish and non-Scottish members, but we decided to put everyone in kilts. McCalls was amazing in helping us coordinate everything and blending the outfits with the MacLennan tartan, which worked perfectly.
For my bridesmaids, I ordered their dresses online from Pretty Lavish. I let each of them choose a style they liked best, but we kept it cohesive by sticking to a color palette that matched the wedding theme. I loved the idea of everyone having an individual look while still creating a unified and elegant vibe.
TELL US ABOUT YOUR CEREMONY
Our ceremony and wedding day were a true reflection of us, combining creativity, personal touches, and a lot of trust in the process.
We opted for a civil ceremony rather than a church wedding to keep things simple and inclusive. It felt more “us” and allowed everyone to feel connected to the moment. One of the most special elements of the ceremony was involving our dogs. Our oldest dog walked down the aisle with the best man to deliver our rings, which was incredibly meaningful.
Another personal touch was that I, the bride, was walked down the aisle by both of my parents. While it’s not traditionally done, it was important to me as they both mean so much, and I wanted them both by my side.
For the decor, I leaned heavily into the autumnal theme. I loved the rich, warm tones of orange, and that became the heart of our design. I decided to create all the wedding stationery myself, everything from the invitations to the table settings because I wanted a personal, creative touch in the details. It was a labour of love, but so rewarding to see it all come together.
When it came to the flowers, Paper and Petals did an incredible job. I trusted them completely to bring the vision to life, and they exceeded all expectations. Weddings can often feel like a “trust the process” kind of situation because you don’t always know exactly what it will look like until the day itself, but it was worth it. We also incorporated personal elements into the table numbers. As a couple, we love traveling together and exploring new places, so each table number was paired with travel suggestions. On the back of each card, we included recommendations for where to stay, what to do, and where to eat in those destinations—because let’s face it, eating is one of our favourite things to do as a couple!
We had a string quartet that played a selection of beautiful songs, which added so much romance to the day. Their music set the tone for the ceremony and made the entire experience feel even more magical.
Every detail felt like a reflection of us, and seeing it all come together on the day made it so special.
TELL US ABOUT THE RECEPTION
The food, the music, the cake, and the overall vibe of our wedding came together so beautifully!
For the food, we didn’t have a lot of options since the venue we booked only allowed one catering service, but honestly, their food was amazing. We still have guests raving about it even now! We chose the menu ourselves and made sure to give our guests two options to pick from, which worked out perfectly.
Instead of serving a separate dessert, we decided to have our wedding cake as the dessert, knowing that wedding cakes often get overlooked. Our cake supplier, Dimbim Cakes, was absolutely incredible. The cake was stunning and exactly what we envisioned, down to the last detail. Everyone loved it, and to this day, people still talk about how delicious it was.
For the wedding favours, I wanted to incorporate something personal, so I worked with one of my favourite bubble tea shops – Hea , which also happens to make the best macarons I’ve ever tasted. Their macarons are honestly to die for, and I wanted our guests to experience that same joy. They were so helpful, especially since this was the largest order they’d ever taken on, and everything turned out perfectly.
Music played such an important role in our wedding, and we wanted it to reflect both of our cultures and personalities. For the reception, we hired a DJ because it felt like the best way to blend Scottish music and African Afrobeats seamlessly. It was the perfect choice to get everyone on the dance floor and create an amazing atmosphere that celebrated both sides of our heritage.
WHICH SUPPLIERS ROCKED YOUR DAY?
I honestly don’t think I can pick a favorite supplier. Every single one of them played such an incredible part in delivering the day we envisioned.
Our photographer, Scott Arlow, was absolutely phenomenal. Not only did they capture every special moment, he also coordinated everything so seamlessly. Guests still talk about how they handled everyone with such care and respect.
Our videographer was equally fantastic, capturing the emotion of the day so beautifully.
The team at Logie Country House, especially Gillian, went above and beyond to accommodate us. Tim and Steph were outstanding as well, ensuring everything ran smoothly and making sure every detail was perfect.
The flowers by Paper and Petals were breathtaking and fit the theme so beautifully.
Our cake by Dibmin was stunning and tasted just as good as it looked.
Hudson’s Catering also deserves a shoutout for the incredible food. It was absolutely delicious and left everyone raving about it.
Every supplier exceeded our expectations and came together to deliver a day that was everything we’d dreamed of. I couldn’t have asked for a better team to make it all happen.
ANY LESSONS LEARNED OR ADVICE YOU’D LIKE TO SHARE?
I wouldn’t say wedding planning was easy, it was probably one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. There was so much family pressure, and being an African bride, there were a lot of traditions and expectations to navigate. Balancing those cultural elements while trying to respect my parents’ wishes meant there were a lot of opinions involved, and I didn’t want to disappoint anyone.
One of the biggest challenges was dealing with last-minute changes like people backing out at the eleventh hour or not RSVPing until after everything had already been paid for. It was financially stressful and emotionally draining at times. But what got us through was being there for each other and supporting one another. There were so many moments where I felt like I was having a meltdown, but we stayed focused on what we wanted as a couple, and that helped us push through.
If I could share one piece of advice, it would be to stick to your guns. Do what you want and plan the wedding that feels right for you. I know it’s easier said than done, especially when there’s so much family involvement, but it’s so important to hold on to your vision. At the end of the day, the people who truly want to be there will make the effort, and those who don’t, won’t. And that’s okay. Looking back, I’m really proud of the things I stood firm on, and it made the day feel even more special and true to us.
