FIVE REASONS YOU SHOULD BE THINKING ABOUT AN INTIMATE WEDDING
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There are so many benefits to a more intimate day over a larger wedding with all the extras plus a big guest count to match.
Five reasons to have an intimate wedding
We speak to so many couples who are saving up for that big wedding, a huge celebration in front of dozens and dozens of guests… but what if massive parties just aren’t for you? Does that mean you’re going to miss out on the wedding of your dreams?
No! Absolutely not.
Couples sometimes worry that a smaller wedding will lack energy and punch. But, like all things when it comes to weddings, it’s all about you two. What fits you both best as a couple? What does your heart say?
WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN AN ELOPEMENT AND A MICRO WEDDING?
Strictly speaking an elopement is the two of you, a celebrant and two witnesses (who must be over 16 years old). Your photographer and videographer can act as witnesses, for example, so don’t feel you need to invite anyone else along especially to be your witness.
We’ve seen elopements where the couple have brought their kids or dogs along and – while they can’t be witnesses – we love that your two legged and four legged family members are included.
A micro wedding you’re looking at up to 30 guests, normally around 20 or so, including your wedding party. It’s not as small as an elopement, but it’s intimate enough for you to spend the day with your absolute nearest and dearest.
Now we’ve cleared that up, here are 5 fab reasons why it might be worth you considering a micro wedding.
Don’t worry, if an elopement is more your cup of tea then we’ll be raving about those soon too!
REASON 1 – COST
However much we want to pretend money doesn’t matter, let’s face it, a lot of wedding decisions come down to cost. And smaller weddings do tend to cost less, or allow you to spend more on the things that mean the most.
When you have more guests the majority of your budget will go towards a bigger venue and food. There’s no getting away from it. With a micro wedding you’ll naturally spend less on catering, have more flexibility in your venue choice, and be able to put that budget elsewhere. You might want to get a coordinator in to help you with those final weeks before the wedding, or there’s a photographer you’ve been Insta stalking for months. Whatever it is, you’ve got the option to spend your budget where you like.
REASON 2 – VENUE CHOICES
Fewer guests opens you up to so many more venue options. And in Scotland there is so much choice – from rural, to coastal to city vibes and everything inbetween. Whatever rocks your boat there’ll be a venue to match.
So many of our favourite venues, the really awesome ones, have outside space, or lots of smaller rooms, that are just perfect for intimate weddings. Depending on your numbers you might even find somewhere with on-site accommodation for everyone which is perfect for pre-wedding get-togethers or day after BBQs and hangouts.
REASON 3 – LESS ‘MOVING PARTS’
Smaller weddings are, generally, just easier to manage and plan. There’s less admin for a start. No need to write, post and keep track of 100+ invitations. Fewer menu choices to keep on top of and a much smaller table plan to put together, if you even need a table plan at all!
Now, we’re not saying you get to forgo all admin and organisation, there’s still going to be things that need planning and sorting. It’s just, overall, a lot less admin to manage!
REASON 4 – QUALITY TIME
Your day will absolutely whizz by. One minute you’ll be sipping fizz as you get ready ahead of your ceremony, the next you’ll be covered in confetti and engulfed in hugs after you’ve said your vows. That goes for any size wedding, which is why we continually shout about booking a fantastic photographer and amazing videographer. They’ll capture those fleeting moments for you to look back on for years to come.
When you’re surrounded by dozens, maybe even over a hundred, guests, you’ll feel pulled in all different directions, brief chats with everyone with an eye on making sure you make some sort of contact with each and every guest. Naturally, with a smaller day, you’ve got more time to spend with the people you love. Every couple we’ve spoken to who had a more intimate wedding has been overjoyed at being able to spend quality time with their guests.
REASON 5 – A CHILLED OUT, RELAXED ATMOSPHERE
Micro weddings are just so much more relaxed than their larger counterparts. Couples are amazed at just how chilled out they feel and are generally less stressed. Possibly because the buildup and planning has been much easier so they’re going into the day more relaxed. There’s probably less nerves too, you’ve got fewer people to stand up and speak in front of!
The day is generally less regimented so there are fewer things that could go potentially go awry, and you tend to be in the moment more. And if things don’t quite go to plan then you’re surrounded by the people you’re closest to who will generally jump in and take any stress off your hands.
Ultimately, a smaller, relaxed environment means you can be more present in the moment. Which sounds like a win to us!
Remember, if you need any help with finding the very best suppliers for your intimate wedding then you know where we are!
