From the spectacular coastal setting to a special piece of family jewellery, inspiration came in many forms for this couple. We are more than a little in love with their beautiful big day…
Love at first sight or gradual attraction?
The story goes that our eyes met across our rubber rings on a family holiday when Ally was too young to be chatting up girls and I was still in nappies!
Unbeknown to us when we got together years later, our mums had been childhood friends as they’d lived on the same street growing up. They’d lost touch as they grew older but years later, when Ally was four and I had just turned one, they randomly bumped into each other again in Algarve, Portugal where both families were holidaying at the same hotel.
You could say our story started then but it wasn’t until 18 years later, when we were studying at the same university, that we clocked one another again. This time, our eyes met across the computer screens in our uni library, not quite as romantic as our first meeting by the Portuguese pool!
I would say the whole story constitutes a gradual attraction but the groom would beg to differ, definitely love at first sight!
We were inspired by…
This is a hard one, I don’t think we could pinpoint one sole thing that inspired us. All the elements we chose for our big day came from so many shared inspirations. Here’s just three:
The setting – We had an idea of the kind of wedding we wanted but it wasn’t until we found our venue and looked out on the setting where we’d exchange our vows and celebrate as the new Mr & Mrs Hogg with all our family and friends, that we really began to get a feel for the special elements we wanted to bring into our wedding day;
Family treasure – I knew I’d be wearing a special piece of my mum’s jewellery on our wedding day, a ring which had a navy blue sapphire stone in the centre, surrounded by beautiful circle-cut diamonds. I wanted our day to emulate the beauty, elegance and same precious feel that the ring signified. As well as that, we chose navy as the contrast colour against simple ivory and silver undertones for our wedding colour scheme to match the ring;
1 Corinthians 13 – The ultimate love passage in the Bible. We had this bible scripture as the first reading in our ceremony and were inspired to use the various ‘love’ attributes described in the passage as the names for each of our tables. We also displayed the verse on the table plan for guests to read as they came into the dinner reception room.
HOW DID YOU PERSONALISE YOUR WEDDING DAY?
We wanted to make everything about the day really personal to us. Starting with a stamp that only the two of us could create…our fingerprints amalgamated into a heart…which we used in everything from the invites through to the order of service, our favours and on our photobooth we had specially made for the day.
We really wanted all our guests to fully appreciate how much it meant to us to have them sharing in our Big Day, so a lot of the personal touches we’d organised were little ways of us saying ‘thank-you’. There were the lovingly prepared freshen up baskets in the male and female toilets for guests to use across the night, our thank-you note favours and the fingerprint tree which was hand-drawn by my sister, the chief bridesmaid, where we asked each of our guests to leave an imprint on our day.
Underneath the fingerprint heart were the words “Hoggy Ever After” which we asked guests to use as their hashtag when they were uploading pics from the wedding on Instagram, Twitter, etc. so we could have our own personal wedding photo feed to see all the memories captured on the day.
What was on your wedding menu?
Prawn and Crab Cocktail – Soft Herb Mayonnaise, Marinated Fennel served with fresh Granary Bread; Honey-Roasted Gressingham Duck Breast, Confit Duck Leg, Dauphinoise Potatoes, Spring Vegetables, Calvados and Apple Jus; Lemon Meringue Pie, Summer Berries and Fruit Coulis.
The food tasting for our wedding menu was definitely one of the highlights of the wedding planning!
FIRST DANCE – CHOREOGRAPHED ROUTINE OR SEDATE SHUFFLE?
Very much the latter!
WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE FOR FUTURE BRIDES?
You’ll hear it a thousand times but enjoy it. Every minute of it. Laugh off the things that don’t go as planned on the day (imperfections make it!) and really take in all the amazing memories. Soak up the smiles and love you’re surrounded by; after all you have an entire room filled all the precious people who have played a small or big, but equally important, part in getting you and your husband to where you are on your wedding day.